May I Introduce To You . . . Pat O’Donnell Kuhn

Pat O'Donnell Kuhn

I have the great pleasure of introducing you to Pat Kuhn and her blog, Touching Family History, described as, “. . . I am the owner of the blog and basically what I do is talk about things I have found in my research on my family. At times it is about not being able to find things or the excitement when things fall into place!”

How Pat Got Started in Genealogy

“As you know, my name is Pat O’Donnell Kuhn, I have 5 grown children and 9 wonderful grandchildren.

I was born in Philadelphia, but we lived in the suburbs so I grew up in Glenolden, Delaware County, Pennsylvania. I still consider myself a Pennsylvanian even though I have lived just over the state line in Wilmington, Delaware for the last 7 years.

I have been working on Genealogy/Family history for about 20 years. I grew up listening to stories my grandmothers would tell about people and I wanted to find out more. The more I found the more I wanted to know because it was so interesting to find out about these people I never met. Just like all of us who do this, I have so many times wished I had started when my grandmothers were still alive so I could ask more questions. Like who are the people in these photos you have left me with no identification on them!”

Pat’s Favorite Blog Post

“I think my favorite post was ‘McCarry, Welsh and Niland Connections’ I was nearing the end of my ProGen studies and I was working on my Proof Argument. I was putting all the pieces together for my subject, my great-grandfather, James Francis McCarry and all of the sudden all these items that I had been finding at different times were coming together and connections were happening. I was so excited that I had to write about it. I had realized how much I had learned and how my research had improved.”

Pat’s Tips for New Bloggers

“I guess a tip I would have for any new genealogy bloggers is to keep working at your blog, you never know what cousin is going to find it and find you!”

How Genealogy Has Improved Pat’s Life

“I think that doing genealogy has helped me connect with my ancestors and it has helped me find and be found by family I did not know I had. That has been great fun!”

Pat’s Favorite Ancestor

“I guess if I have a favorite Ancestor it would be my great-grandmother, Cecilia Fitzpatrick O’Donnell. I have only one photo of her and she looks like a character. My dad told me one time that she smoked a corn cob pipe; I wish I had a photo of that. I have written about her a few times and even posted the photo. Just another one that I wish I had met!”

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Please take a moment to stop by Pat’s blog. Leave her a comment to let her know you stopped by. Welcome Pat, it’s great to have you here!

© 2013, copyright Gini Webb

Gini Webb lives in San Diego, California and manages her own blog, Ginisology, while also researching her own German heritage, recently retired, enjoying life with wonderful husband Steve and visiting with her now seven grandchildren!

Are you a genealogy blogger who would like to be interviewed for the “May I Introduce To You . . .” series? If so, contact Gini Webb via e-mail.

May I Introduce To You . . . Linda Huesca Tully

Linda Huesca Tully

I have the great pleasure of introducing you to Linda Huesca Tully and her blog, Many Branches, One Tree, described as, “. . . We are all connected in some way, like the many branches of a tree.  This blog explores those branches, sharing family stories and information – both known and yet to be discovered – so we can meet the people behind the names and gain insights into our own lives.  Many Branches, One Tree introduces the numerous dimensions of these branches, including the Huesca, Tully, Perrotin, Fay, McGinnis, Riney, Schiavon/Schiavone, Hoppin, Gaffney, and Makepeace families, among others.”

Linda was born in Chicago, Illinois and resides in the San Francisco bay area with her treasures, “My husband and our three grown children.”

How Linda Got Started in Genealogy

“I started in my teens.  I was the kid who stayed behind at the dinner table while the others went out to play.  Coming from a family of storytellers, I knew that after dinner was when the real conversation got going!

My mother always explained how the people in the stories were related to us.  She’d draw pedigree charts for me on paper napkins, scrap paper – whatever was handy.  She’d pass these around the table, and people would chime in with dates of birth, death, where people lived and what they did.  Inevitably, someone would say, ‘You know, you ought to write that down.’  So I took that to heart, collecting those scraps of paper, photos, and other memorabilia.  I also have corresponded with my relatives since I was young and saved their letters over the years, so there’s probably a bit of an archivist in me, too.

Having a journalistic side, I have always been curious about people – always looking for the who-what-why-when-how angles – and genealogy was sort of a natural outgrowth of that.  I really can’t remember when I haven’t worked on genealogy – it’s about my flesh and blood, after all, so it’s my passion.”

Linda’s Thoughts on Blogging

“I had been thinking about starting a blog in June 2006 when a British couple, Don and Jennie Murray, contacted me through Ancestry.com about my family tree.  It turned out Jennie and I were third cousins whose families lived an ocean apart and had lost touch over 100 years ago.  Relatives on both sides had speculated about each other’s fate off and on ever since.  We began a correspondence that led to our visiting each other, as we re-established close family ties and met many more cousins.

That’s when I knew this could be a powerful tool for sharing information – and for keeping it available for generations to come.  I also wanted it to be a modern day ‘virtual’ dinner table, bringing people together to add and share information and connect with one another.”

Linda’s Favorite Blog Post(s)

“They’ve all been fun to write, because they give me an opportunity to put myself in my ancestors’ shoes.  When you write about them, you kind of ‘become them’ for a while, you dream about them and find yourself wondering what obstacles they had, what they would have said or done.  When I write about someone, I wish I could ask him or her, ‘What do you want me to know about you?’  That’s not to say that I hear voices or see them, but it does feel like we connect in some strange way.  I’d like to think they’re pleased with this and that they’re guiding me through this process.

The posts I like best tend to be the ones I’ve worked on the hardest – the same ones that can’t seem to let me go until I’ve finished them.

A few that come to mind:

  • My great-grandfather, Francisco Perrotin, died of yellow fever in Orizaba, Veracruz, Mexico, in1899, leaving my great grandmother to raise their four young children.  My ‘long-lost’ British cousins sent me the photograph in this post, which shows my great-grandparents holding my infant grandmother on her Baptism Day.  The photo caused quite a lot of excitement in our family, as no one on this side of the Atlantic had ever seen it!
  • My father-in-law, Welner “Bing” Tully, was one of the kindest people I’ve ever met – I am so grateful to him and my mother-in-law for giving me my wonderful (and very supportive) husband, Chuck.
  • My maternal grandfather, Ralph Schiavon, was the quintessential immigrant success story.  He worked on a loading dock and in a shoe factory as a young boy to help support his family, joined the U.S. Navy during World War I, and became a tax consultant with the IRS in Chicago, eventually turning down Al Capone’s request to ‘fix’ his taxes.  This is one of a four part series about his life.
  • Every list needs a romantic story, and this one, about how my parents got engaged after only a two-month courtship, should do the trick.

Currently, I’m writing a series on my mother and three of my relatives who were trapped on the roof of a building in one of the worst fires in Mexico City’s history.  It’s a complex story, and I’ve done a lot of research and conducted several interviews in my quest to write an accurate and compelling story.  An interesting thing happened several nights ago in the midst of writing.  I was describing how my mother felt as she was waiting to be rescued when I began shaking, as if I was right there with her in that moment.  I had to stop writing and made a pot of tea to steady myself!   I hope to post the first episode this week but have to finish checking some facts.”

Linda’s Tips for New Bloggers

“Start wherever you are.  If you have questions, don’t be afraid to acknowledge them or to ask for help.  Someone out there may have the same questions or better yet, the answers.  Remember we are works in progress, and so are our blogs.  Let your ancestors tell their story – this can be very freeing, particularly when you feel too close to tell it yourself.”

How Genealogy Has Improved Linda’s Life

“Genealogy has blessed our family in many ways.  It has shown our children who they are and how they relate to the world.  It has taken our family places we never thought we’d go and introduced us to cousins, new and not-so-new.  One of the big thrills of my life was standing side by side with my ‘new’ cousins Jennie Murray and Dorothy Stephens in front of the house our Irish great-great grandmother, Catherine (O’Grady) Perrotin, built in Ruardean, England after she left Mexico.  We could almost feel her smiling down on us, as if she’d orchestrated our coming together…but that’s a story for another day!”

Linda’s Favorite Ancestor

“Ah . . . the impossible question!  That’s like asking who is your favorite child . . . but I guess it’s whomever I am working on at the time. The more I research my stories, the more I learn and the closer I feel to them.

  • First would have to be my parents, Gilbert and Joan (Schiavon) Huesca, because they taught me what it means to love and value and honor family.  I owe who I am today to their love and example.
  • My great-great grandparents, Francois and Catherine (O’Grady) Perrotin, have always captured my imagination because of their adventurous nature and their willingness to take risks in new places. He left Melle, France for America to escape the French draft while she came from Waterford, Ireland to escape poverty.  They met and married in Shreveport, Louisiana, on the eve of the Civil War, moved to Mexico to work on the burgeoning railroad, and raised two children there.
  • My husband’s great-great grandfather, Charles Hoppin, is another favorite.  A member of an early American family from Rhode Island, he was mayor of Mobile, Alabama, survived a duel, served as a judge in Texas and a postmaster in New Mexico, brought stage coach commerce to New Mexico, and played a part in the Compromise of 1850, was part of a survey group to establish state borders between Texas and New Mexico.
  • For some reason I always felt close to my great-grandfather, Thomas Eugene McGinnis, though he was born 100 years before me.  He was orphaned as a toddler in New York.  He moved with his brothers and sisters to be with relatives in Ontario, Canada, but ran away when he was still a boy.  He went off to sea and sailed around the world several times, writing a book about his adventures before the mast before he returned home to settle down in Conneaut, Ohio.  Years ago, I had the honor of transcribing his manuscript and then self-published his book for my family.”

What Linda Loves Most About Genealogy

“I love it when our children proudly explain our family tree to their friends.  I love that they enjoy reading the stories about our family, especially when they ask for a sneak peek at something even before it’s posted.  I love the creativity involved in solving mysteries and the thrill of watching a brick wall start to crumble, then come crashing down.  And I love getting to write about the things that are nearest and dearest to my heart.”

Linda’s Time Capsule Message

“I loved you and cared about you and you mattered to me, whether you came before me, were part of my life, or were not even born yet.  You are my reason for all the things I have ever done.

Remember that every human being has a purpose and a story.  Everyone deserves to be loved, and no one wants to be forgotten.  People’s stories are important; they should not fade away in time to become, as my mother once said, ‘just another name on a family tree, hanging precariously from some obscure branch.’

Don’t wait until it’s too late to talk to your relatives – especially the older ones.  Take the time to listen now.  Ask questions.  Ask again.  Write what you know and note where you got it.  Years from now, you’ll be glad you did.  And while you’re at it, don’t forget to write your own story today.  What will it say about you tomorrow?”

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Please take a moment to head on over to Linda’s blog. Leave her a comment letting her know you stopped by. Welcome Linda, it’s great to have you here!

© 2013, copyright Gini Webb

Gini Webb lives in San Diego, California and manages her own blog, Ginisology, while also researching her own German heritage, recently retired, enjoying life with wonderful husband Steve and visiting with her now seven grandchildren!

Are you a genealogy blogger who would like to be interviewed for the “May I Introduce To You . . .” series? If so, contact Gini Webb via e-mail.

May I Introduce To You . . . Kathy Laprise

Kathie Kolodzinski Laprise - 2012

I have the great pleasure of introducing you to Kathie Laprise and her blog, Ancestors and Cousins.

In Kathie’s photo, she is wearing a straw boater hat from the early 1900’s, “. . . Needless to say genealogy has triggered an interest in vintage clothing!  This was brought on by trying to identify the dates of older pictures.  One thing leads to another doesn’t it?”

How Kathie Got Started in Genealogy

“Officially researching my family tree and genealogy began in 1999.  This is when I actually started keeping track and writing down information in a logical way but I was always asking where did my family come from, who were they, tell me their stories.

When I started I did not care to purchase a genealogy program and designed my own Excel spreadsheets.  This lasted about two months!  Within that short period of time I knew I needed help and purchased one of the ‘Dummies’ books for genealogy.  There was a free CD included which allowed me to try out several genealogy programs.  I found one that suits me and have been purchasing their upgrades ever since.

My paternal grandparents had died years before my parents had married and even though I loved to listen to the stories my dad, Edward Kolodzinski, would tell me about his parents, Michael and Maryanna, I had never really thought of researching beyond their lives.  My paternal aunt and godmother, Mary Kolodzinski Porebski, had always been interested in locating her roots in Europe.  My maternal grandfather, Stanley Szostek, died when I was five so the only grandparent I could ask questions of was my grandmother, Mary Inda Szostek.  She did not know much about her parent’s lives in Poland.

In 1993, my late husband, Robert Laprise, and I purchased a building in our city’s downtown area to house my store.  It was an old fairly decrepit building nestled in the midst of the Registered Historic Downtown of Manitowoc, WI.  To be able to renovate the building we decided to research its history finding it had originally been built in 1873.  Seeing the fantastic information I could find on the buildings history without too much problem triggered the hidden yen to find out about my past, my bricks and stone so to speak.  This began a quest that continues to fascinate me.”

Kathie’s Thoughts on Blogging

“My first blogging attempt began about five years ago.  Please note the key word attempt.  I composed two or three posts and then the host decided to stop hosting any blogs so I never wrote another blog post until 2012.  Why did I start?  So many people are interested in who there family is, where they came from, the lives they lived.  I do not feel what a person finds about their family should be kept in a closet.  It is meant to be shared with others, both cousins and ‘almost cousins’ and people who may enjoy the stories but not be related to the people we write about.  I have given out many CDs with copies of my work to people who are interested and then I started a page on Facebook.  Seeing the interested response among the people I know there was the final trigger.  I have started writing about my direct ancestors but eventually will continue to add stories about collateral relatives, history and traditions of our European ancestors and probably share some of the old family recipes which have been passed down over time.”

Kathie’s Tips for New Bloggers

“Just do it.  You can write a few minutes a day or a week.  Posts do not need to be long they just need to be out there.  One of the things that tickle me is writing a story and within a few days finding I can place the name of the person I had written about in a search engine and it will come up! Share the stories; share the love you felt knowing or getting to know your ancestors.  You are the one to preserve the stories and some of the stories will help us to know who we are.”

Kathie’s Favorite Ancestor

“That is a hard question to answer since I have so many!  My paternal grandmother, Maryanna, My Elusive Babica, Maryanna Kolodzinski, would probably be my favorite on my dad’s side.  I have been compared to her a lot by both my dad and aunts.  My likes, looks and even the sound of my voice I had been told was reminiscent of her.  Even though she is one of the most frustrating people to research (I always felt she was an independent, loving person).  Her independence was a role model for me when I was a teenager.  She immigrated to the USA by herself, working as a servant.  From there she traveled to Chicago without having relatives living there.  She was a victim of domestic abuse in the late 1900′s and in 1913 filed for divorce from her husband.  At the time she did not speak English and would need to support her 3 children on her own.  All of this at a time when women did not even have the right to own property or vote!”

How Genealogy Has Improved Kathie’s Life

“Genealogy has been my own private time traveling machine!  It has taken me to other lands and other times and helped make me more appreciative of what we have today.  I have enjoyed meeting many cousins and ‘almost cousins’ (I had best explain that one, it is a termed several cousins and I made up referring to others who we are quite sure we are related to but have yet to prove it).  History and geography were probably my least favorite subjects in school but now I pour over books and maps, they contain my family history!”

What Kathie Loves Most About Genealogy and a Time Capsule Message

“I have helped others get to know their ancestors also.  Finding family for others has made me feel wonderful.  Oh, I do not believe genealogy should just be names and dates but we should aim to find out who our ancestors really were, we need to find their dash.  The following was posted on a genealogy message board when I first started researching.  It was written anonymously therefore I would like to share it with you:

‘SPENDING YOUR DASH?

I read of a man who stood to speak
At the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on her tombstone
From the beginning . . . to the end.
He noted that first came her date of birth
And spoke the following date with tears,
But he said what mattered most of all
Was the dash between those years, (1930 – 1998)
For that dash represents all the time
That she spent alive on earth . . . .
And now only those who loved her
Know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not, how much we own;
The cars . . . the house . . . the cash.
What matters is how we live and love
And how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard . . .
Are there things you’d like to change?
For you never know how much time is left.
That can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough
To consider what’s true and real,
And always try to understand
The way other people feel.
And be less quick to anger,
And show appreciation more
And love the people in our lives
Like we’ve never loved before.
If we treat each other with respect,
And more often wear a smile . . .
Remembering that this special dash
Might only last a little while.
So, when your eulogy’s being read
With your life’s action’s to rehash . . .
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash?’”

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Please take a moment to head on over to Kathie’s blog. Leave her a comment letting her know you stopped by. Welcome Kathie, it’s great to have you here!

© 2013, copyright Gini Webb

Gini Webb lives in San Diego, California and manages her own blog, Ginisology, while also researching her own German heritage, recently retired, enjoying life with wonderful husband Steve and visiting with her now seven grandchildren!

Are you a genealogy blogger who would like to be interviewed for the “May I Introduce To You . . .” series? If so, contact Gini Webb via e-mail.